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Unbothered
How I Navigate Pleasure As A Black Asexual Person
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Ev'Yan Whitney
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Shopping
The Most Famous Amazon Vibrator Is On Sale For Prime Day
Karina Hoshikawa
11 Jul 2023
Shopping
12 Fashion, Beauty & Home Sales We’re Actually Shopping
Lauren Cunningham
11 Jul 2023
Relationships
My Partner Used An Open Relationship To Cheat On Me
Megan Wallace
1 Jul 2023
Relationships
20 Women In Long-Term Relationships Tell Us How Their Sex Lives H...
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Maggie Zhou
Wellness
What Is Asexuality, Really? We Asked A Sexologist
A few years ago, an A was added to the end of the official queer acronym, making it LGBTQIA+. This was a huge moment for the asexual or “ace” c
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Nina Miyashita
Sex
9 Women On The Last Time They Faked An Orgasm — & Why
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Nina Miyashita
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Sex Toys
The OG Sex Toy Has Had An Upgrade & You Can Leave It In Plain Sight
The oldest known sex toys date to around 28,000 BC, created from carved and polished rock. These days, of course, we’re much more fortunate to have a
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Lauren Cunningham
Relationships
What’s The Difference Between Polyamory & An Open Relations...
So much of what we understand about relationships and love comes not only from the people we know, but the TV shows, movies, and books we consume. The prob
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Kasandra Brabaw
Sex
The Truth About Using Sex As A Stress Reliever
It’s no secret that consensual sex is healthy. Typically it can feel pretty good, bring you closer to a partner or partners, and give you that marvel
by
Claire Fox
Shopping
PSA: There’s 30% Off LELO’s Luxury Sex Toys
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Charlotte Lewis
Wellness
Help! I’m In A One-Sided Open Relationship
Thanks for reading Can We Talk?, a sex and relationships column that aims to tackle the burning questions about sex, dating, relationships, and b
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Moraya Seeger DeG...
Unbothered
Why I’m Making Ethical Porn For Black Women
Let’s face it: porn is not going away any time soon — and it has grown more popular with women than ever before. A 2022 survey by adult streaming platf
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Mellie Akpoghene
Shopping
These 9 Sex Toys Mimic Oral Sex (Almost)
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Kasandra Brabaw
Relationships
What You Should Know Before Watching Porn With Your Partner
Even as we progress further into being a more sex-positive society, when it comes to porn, we’re often still quite divided. With a history of present
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Nina Miyashita
Shopping
16 Extremely Quiet Vibrators For Masturbating In Silent Mode
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Charlotte Lewis
Relationships
What To Do When Your Ex Still Has Your Nudes
Content warning: This article discusses sexual assault and abuse in a way that may be distressing to some readers. When we break up with someone, we often
by
Nina Miyashita
Sex
What Is TikTok’s ‘Belly Press’ Sex Trend & Does...
TikTok has officially become one of the first places we look for new ideas on how to spice things up in the bedroom, and the ‘belly press’ tren
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Nina Miyashita
Shopping
Lovehoney Is Taking Up To 50% Off Its Biggest Name Vibrators & More
If you’re looking for the hottest deals on sex toys this week, look no further than Lovehoney’s Big Brand Event. The best sale of the season i
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Charlotte Lewis
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Relationships
Are They Cute Or Are They Just Convenient?
We’re sitting at the airport chowing down on a food court meal at our gate when my friend audibly gasps. “Oh my god, is it just me or is that g
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Nina Miyashita
Sex School
‘Choke Me Daddy:’ The Dangerous Truth About Breath Pl...
Jade was scrolling through Instagram when she saw it: Nintendo’s Kirby — round, pastel pink, and docile — standing next to a whiteboard, pointing to
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Sara Youngblood G...
Sex Toys
13 Top-Rated Vibrators That’ll Hit Your G-Spot
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GiGi Engle
Relationships
Situationships Aren’t Always Toxic — These 9 Women Are Proof
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Nina Miyashita
Living
Help! Why Am I Only Attracted To Fictional Characters?
I haven’t been on a date in over six months. But over that time, I’ve probably fallen in love at least 20 times. First, there was Peeta Mellark
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Alexandra Koster
Sex
As A Masturbation Newbie, I Swear By This Rabbit Vibrator
Last year I shared a big secret with R29 readers: I masturbated for the first time, at the age of 24. Being a novice in the self-pleasure game, I got off t
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Lauren Cunningham
Sex
Frenchie Just Launched A Bullet Vibrator & It’s Très Magnifique
Bonjour, mon amie! I have some trés exciting news for you. Sexual wellness brand Frenchie just added a new bullet vibrator to its already delightful sex t
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Charlotte Lewis
Anxiety
Fight, Flight, Or Freezing In Bed: What To Do When You Get Sexual...
If you’ve ever dealt with sexual anxiety, you’ll know it’s the last thing you want in bed. Even though the lighting is just right and the music i
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Nina Miyashita
Sex
Want To Have Better Sex? Try This
Most of us want great sex and, based on the Refinery29 archives, we’ll try plenty to get it. From building in bondage and finding out our fetishes to try
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Esther Newman
Shopping
13 Luxury Vibrators That Are Worth The Splurge
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Charlotte Lewis
Unbothered
The Driest Winter Ever: How I Gave Up Masturbation For One Month
This story includes sexually explicit language. Welcome to Don’t Yuck My Yummm, Unbothered’s sexual wellness column and digital diary aimed at destig
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Kourtney Pope
Sex
6 True Stories Of Women Hooking Up With Their Bosses
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Maggie Zhou
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